Tails of Understanding: The Art of Communication With Our Human Clients

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Course Begins: TBD

Duration: 2 weeks

Instructor: Carmaleta Aufderheide MS-CRES, KPA-CTP, CPDT-KA, CSAT & Karis Nafte CDBC, SDC, Accredited Mediator

Course type: Instructed Course

Do you ever feel that working with dogs is the easy part, and that working with their humans is the real challenge? This comprehensive 4-module course is designed specifically for dog trainers, veterinarians, shelter workers, groomers, and behavior consultants who want to strengthen their communication skills and navigate difficult client interactions with confidence.

 

Taught by two experts in conflict resolution who are also seasoned dog professionals with a combined 50 years of experience working with people and their dogs, this course offers practical strategies drawn from real-world scenarios you’ll actually face in your practice.

 

Through this course, you’ll learn how to:
  • Engage clients with genuine curiosity to uncover what’s really driving their concerns
  • Avoid common communication mistakes that lead to frustration and breakdown
  • Stay emotionally grounded when clients are reactive, dismissive, or resistant
  • Have hard conversations without damaging the relationship
  • Work effectively with clients who challenge your expertise or resist your guidance

 

This course goes beyond technical training knowledge to address the human side of animal work. You’ll develop the resilience and communication skills needed to build trust, collaborate effectively, and create lasting positive change—even with your most challenging clients.

 

Whether you’re dealing with clients who won’t follow through, argue with every suggestion, or bring conflict into your training sessions, this course will give you the tools to handle these situations professionally while protecting your own wellbeing.

 

** IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT LIVE SESSIONS **

  • Sessions are not recorded
  • Sessions are 2 hours in duration
  • There are 4 live/online sessions for this course (September 22nd, 25th, 28th and 30th, 2026, 12:00pm-2pm EDT)

 

To receive a certificate of completion, students must:
  • Participate in all interactive, live Zoom sessions
  • Complete assignments on schedule

Basic knowledge of behavior and learning principles is helpful but not required.

Full Student:

CEUs: CCPDT (8); IAABC (11); KPA (8)

Cost: $300

Auditor:

CEUs: n/a

Cost:

Cancellation Policy: We will refund 90% up to 30 days pre-event. A 50% refund will be available up to 15 days pre-event. After these deadlines, no refunds will be issued.

Instructor: Carmaleta Aufderheide MS-CRES, KPA-CTP, CPDT-KA, CSAT & Karis Nafte CDBC, SDC, Accredited Mediator

Carmaleta Aufderheide is a positive-reinforcement, force-free dog trainer based in Springfield, Oregon. She holds a Master’s degree in Conflict and Dispute Resolution from the University of Oregon and is a certified trainer and mediator (KPA CTP, CPDT-KA, CSAT). Her graduate research on the restorative impact of prison dog programs, featured in Prison Dog Programs (Springer), inspired her journey into professional dog training.

 

Drawing on years of facilitating restorative justice and education programs for adults in custody, Carm integrates mediation, communication, and training expertise to help families better understand their dogs, ease frustration, and strengthen relationships. She consults regularly with other animal professionals to develop their communication skills for navigating difficult conversations and enhancing collaboration.

 

Carm has been a featured speaker at several conferences and educational platforms, including The Aggression in Dogs Conference (2024), Grisha Stewart Academy, Thrive, and the Victoria Stilwell Behavior Conference (2025). She’s also been featured on several podcasts—ATA Making Ripples with Shelly Woods, The Bitey End of the Dog with Michael Shikashio, Positively Dog Training VSA with Victoria Stilwell, and The Functional Breeding Podcast with Perry Hekman, DVM, PhD—discussing communication, empathy, and professional connection in dog training. Her current work explores the professional impacts of losing our ability to empathize.

 

Karis Nafte is a Certified Dog Behavior Consultant (IAABC No. 6602), Internationally Accredited Family Mediator, and recognized global expert in pet custody matters. With over 25 years of experience in dog training and behaviour consulting, Karis has built her career on compassionate, evidence-based approaches to canine behavior and human-animal relationships. Her expertise spans the range of behaviour from puppy socialization, to separation anxiety and aggression rehabilitation. Her passion is conflict resolution, effective communication especially around the complex dynamics of pet guardianship during family transitions.

 

Karis specializes in resolving pet custody and guardianship disputes during separation and divorce. She provides expert mediation services, behavior consultations, and serves as an expert witness in legal proceedings. Her work addresses the unique intersection of canine behavior, family law, and animal welfare, ensuring outcomes that prioritize the well-being of both animals and their human families.

 

Karis is the author of Who Keeps the Dog: Navigating Pet Custody During Divorce, published by Dogwise Publishers, and has developed comprehensive training courses for legal professionals, mediators, and pet owners navigating custody matters. She has presented and taught for prestigious organizations including the American Bar Association, the Kentucky Bar Association, the University of Wisconsin, the Academy for Professional Family Mediators, the Ontario Association for Family Mediators, The Resolution Institute (Australia), and the Family Law Pathways Institution (Australia). Her articles have been published by the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, Divorce Magazine (UK), the International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants, and The Canadian Dog Trainers Association.

 

Currently serving on the Working Group on Pets in the UK, Karis contributes to legislative efforts regarding the treatment of companion animals in divorce proceedings.

 

In 2005, Karis relocated to South Africa, becoming the first CDBC in the country. Before focusing on pet custody matters she owned and operated a training school and behavior consultation practice for 16 years, where she specialized in rehabilitating dogs with challenging behaviors. She also served as a lecturer in dog behavior at Equine Libirum Veterinary Physiotherapy College, contributing to the education of future veterinary professionals.

 

Karis brings a unique combination of deep canine behavior expertise, mediation skills, and legal knowledge to her work, making her a sought-after consultant, educator, and advocate for animals navigating family transitions.